So someone made a list of the authors that she would avoid based on the racefail imbroglio. And many a person are having fits because this is a boycott/blacklist and boycotts are wrong because...it might hurt the author? Or maybe it reminds one of...McCarthyism/ book burning/ fascism ZOMG? I really don't get the argument that they are using.This is how I look at things.
The various authors linked to have expressed racist and sexist views unrepentantly. They have have have used descriptors of me and mine that include cunt, whore, uneducated, malignant fuckwit, troll, orc, unintellectual, witch-hunting, ignorant and too many others for me to even remember. Are you people now seriously telling me that I have no right to object to being so characterized and I am under an obligation to buy their books regardless?
WHY exactly am I supposed to do that?
WHY in the world should I support a person who considers me less than and other, to say the least? Who write books about me and mine that stereotype us , that make us feel like shit, and that contribuet to our dehumanization in the wider culture? What would that say about my self esteem? What would it say about myself that I, having been insulted and degraded, would now contribute to the degraders' financial surety?
WHY do I need to write this post to explain HOW GODDAMNED FUCKING RIDICULOUS IT IS TO ASK TO ME
TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO DEBASE ME?!?!?!!?!?!?!
To make matters worse, some people still seem to be of the opinion that what is said on the the internet is compartmentalized and not relevant to the offline personality of the person. So according to this reasoning, apparently, the views expressed online are unlikely to flavour the characterizations of women and POC and LGBTs in their books. There are others who seem to feel that their online behaviour is a completely separate box from their offline behaviour. So apparently online behaviour is what? Not real? And meatspace beahviour is the real bit? This argument I consider to be BS of the highest order. Considering the fact that many studies have show that
subconcious racism, sexism and homophobia guide our interactions, do you really expect me to believe that
consciously, bluntly and subtly expressed racism, sexism and homophobia are NOT going to guide the way we see people? The way we interact with them? The way we write them? Do you think that we are complete and utter ignorant idiots? And are you really, REALLY trying to argue that online behaviour is a separate and unrelated thing to offline behavior?
WTF? THEY ARE BOTH ONE PERSON'S BEHAVIOR. THEY ARE ALL PART OF ONE PERSON'S PERSONALITY. In fact, IMO, online behavior can sometimes be a true indicator of a person's real feelings, in that because they are not looking squarely in the person's face at the time, they feel more comfortable in saying what they really think, because there is less social consequence than there would be a face-to-face confrontation.
Behavior online and offline are simply different facets of the same person's personality. In fact, let me say this in a different way. People behave in different ways due to the situation. In meatspace, blatant racism, sexism and homophobia can have, depending on your location, very direct and negative social consequences
directly in your face. We have this illusion of distance online because we are looking at a computer screen and not directly facing someone. Thus, we feel less connected, less at risk and therefore safer. I mean, seriously, how many times have people used the internets to expose or construct identities that they would never debut in meatspace because of the consequences? But you know what? Unless you are suffering form multiple personality disorder?
ITS. STILL. YOU. Why is this so hard to understand? Even in meatspace we don't show all teh facets of our personalities to everyone. We code-switch, dont we? For instance I am not gonna act in certain ways in a business environment that I would act in a more casual environment. There are some things I won't say to my parents that I will say to some friends. I sure as hell won't discuss some topics with certain friends that I will with other friends. Its the same ME, I just show different aspects of my personality depending on the venue that I am in. Ladies and gentlemen? The world wide web is a
venue. Not a different
person. Your actions and saying on this venue
ARE STILL YOURS. You are racist, sexist homophobic online? You are racist, sexist, homophobic offline as well.
You just choose WHERE you show your racism, sexism, homophobia. This is why I stand behind the list. I have the right to refuse to interact with people who consider me shit. I see no goddamn reason for me not have the right to refuse to support monetarily people who consider me to be shit. And I consider what I see as teh request for me to rise above the piles of FAIL squared to support these people an act of arrogance, for it priviledges their need to make a living over my need to refuse to engage with people who want to make a living sabotaging me and mine. Fuck That Shit To HELL.