And, guess what? Not only have I had hand-to-hand training, and am a hunter, I successfully fought off a "stranger-in-the-alleyway" type of rapist many years ago.

So, what happened? Well, not all rape is in a situation where you are being threatened in a obvious way and you respond to a physical threat out of the blue. Not every robbery is a mugging.

It was my husband. It was in our bed. It was accompanied by lies. And it always began when I was asleep.

I have a son. I definately am trying to raise him not to rape.